“I hope Daddy doesn’t tear down my house while we’re gone,” my 3-year-old said to me on the way home from the library. He had used some connector pieces to build a little house right before we’d left. “Oh honey, Daddy wouldn’t tear down your house. He’s a builder. He builds houses,” I replied.
But then I got to thinking. Well, technically, Daddy does tear down houses (or parts of them) sometimes. In our line of work, we not only build new houses, we also flip, fix, renovate, and restore them.
I continued talking with my 3-year-old. “Whenever Daddy demolishes parts of houses, it’s so that he can rebuild them, to make them better, stronger, cleaner and more beautiful.”
As soon as I finished speaking, I felt like God was telling me that I had not only just described my husband and what he does, I had just described God and what He does.
I immediately thought back to my study of the book of Hebrews. In chapter 11, when exemplifying Abraham’s faith, verse 10 says, “For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God.”
Originator. Creator. Maker. Designer. Builder.
Earlier in the book of Hebrews we read, “Jesus has been found worthy of greater honor than Moses, just as the builder of a house has greater honor than the house itself. For every house is built by someone, but God is the builder of everything.” (Hebrews 3:3-4)
Have you ever taken a drive in a neighborhood of beautiful houses? If you’re like me, you focus on the exterior beauty of the house, the detail of the finishes, the overall form of it. You think, “wow, what a gorgeous house!” But in reality, the house shouldn’t get the credit for looking the way it does. The builder should.
Hebrews 3 goes on to say that “…we are his house, if indeed we hold firmly to our confidence and the hope in which we glory,” (emphasis mine). We are God’s house and He might very well be in a process of demo-ing parts of us that need to be renovated or restored.
If you watch the popular TV show, Fixer Upper, with Chip and Joanna Gaines, you know Chip’s favorite day of the renovation is DEMO DAY! But when it comes to God doing some demo in my life…it’s definitely not my favorite day.
Every time I go to one of our houses in the midst of the demo phase, I’m continually astounded by the amount of debris, dirt and dust. I always wonder, “isn’t there a cleaner way to do demo?” Unfortunately, demolition is just messy. There is no way around it. When you break down, tear down and destroy, a mound of rubble is inevitable.
However, in the midst of the rubble, there is a vision and a hope of a restored house.
So how can we be radiant while God is doing some demo work in our lives?
I wrestled with this question because demo-ing a house is one thing, but it’s a whole other thing when it comes to a person and that person is you. However, I think if we keep a few things in mind, we’ll be able to maintain some level of radiance as we go through it.
Our tendency might be to grumble and complain about it – to ask, “why?” But if we are thinking rightly about what God is really doing (keeping the end in mind), it will impact our attitude.
The first thing we need to remember and keep at the forefront of our minds in the midst of demo is that God is a Builder. And sometimes builders have to do dirty, dusty demo work before they can create a beautiful, finished product.
The second thing to remember is that God does not destroy or tear down for the malicious fun of it (like my 1-year-old). His purpose in chiseling away different areas of our life (usually sin areas or areas where we could grow) is to replace them with something new – to renew us. Think of King David in Psalm 51: 10, “Create in me a clean heart and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” Think of John the Baptist when he said about Jesus, “He must become greater; I must become less.” (John 3:30)
The third thing to remember and give us hope in the midst of demo is that “…he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” (Phil. 1:6) He’s not one who starts a renovation project and allows it to sit there indefinitely. He is a faithful Finisher.
So if you are in the middle of a “demo” time in your life, may you have hope that God is in the process of renewing you.
As we seek to be radiant this week, let us remember that Daddy is a Builder.